2 Weeks In

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Mommy set up a play area in the room.

Hi all – We are officially 14 days or two weeks into this hospital stay. Sally and Nicole took advantage of a quiet Sunday and slept in til 9am this morning. She’s doing well when on painkillers, which we now give her every four hours. Although its good to see Sally feeling well while on them, its frustrating not knowing what kind of pain she’s actually in since she can’t tell us. We’ve found that although Sally has more energy with the new painkiller she’s on, it also raises her heart rate and may be a reason she’s had difficulty sleeping. Tonight we just tried giving her morphine again which typically has the opposite effect. If she sleeps well on it, we may look to use that at night and the new painkiller during the day.

Sally was doing well all day, when I arrived she had been eating and playful, however she took a very long nap today which is unusual for her as of late, especially on the new painkillers. She also ate very little the rest of the day. We’re going to have to keep a close eye on her for mouth sores, nausea, and other symptoms of being neutropenic at this stage in the cycle.

On a positive note, Scarlett and her parents got to go home today. There’s lots of empty beds on the floor this evening, which is a good thing. I counted 33 total beds on our floor, Sally and I have probably done 1,000 laps of the floor together so you look for things to keep the mind occupied. Oh, it takes 110 seconds to walk a lap on average.

I got to spend some quality time with Thomas and William this morning, my sister and I took them to a different playground and went for a long walk along the water overlooking the Manhattan Skyline. Nicole left early today so she could do the same. Nicole and I also figured out how to do video chat on our phones today, so the boys got to see and talk to Sally, who perked up and smiled as soon as she heard them. We’ll have to do this more so they can all see each other and the boys can talk to us before going to bed when we’re here.

So I was just told by our nurse that somebody (a resident?) switched Sally from her round the clock anti-nausea meds to “as needed” for some (stupid) reason last night. This means she never received today and is likely why she’s not eating. This is why Nicole or I ALWAYS needs to be here, somebody has to make sure Sally is getting what she needs.

I have a Super Man shirt that I hate wearing, always felt cheesy in it. I had it on two weeks ago and a little boy here saw it and was convinced I was the real Super Man. I saw him again yesterday, and he actually remembered this and was confused asking where my costume was. So today I wore it again and he was happy to see it, especially since he was in a Batman Tshirt just like it. He proceeded to challenge Sally and I to a race around the floor, which we obliged lugging our IV poles with us. He won, Batman beat Super Man.

Please keep Sally in your thoughts and prayers.

Matt

4 Responses

  1. Iliana
    Iliana August 25, 2013 at 10:43 pm | | Reply

    So glad you caught the medication error! I hope she gets to go home soon!

  2. Pam C.
    Pam C. August 25, 2013 at 11:47 pm | | Reply

    It would seem we have to be our own advocates or Sally’s advocate. Too bad.
    God will give you all the strength needed and the required knowledge to bring this healing about.

  3. Marcia
    Marcia August 26, 2013 at 9:15 am | | Reply

    As someone who spent alot of time as a kid in hospitals, yes you and Nicole are her best advocates and always have to be on guard. My parents had to pull me out of hospitals, insist on med changes, etc. b/c they were on top of it and the professional staff isn’t as aware of changes as parents are. Extra prayers going out for Sally and her awesome family so she can go home ASAP!!!!!!!! xoxoxoxo

  4. Karen Zahralban
    Karen Zahralban August 27, 2013 at 6:40 pm | | Reply

    you don’t know me, I leave messages occasionally,read and pass along every blog-the more prayers the better. I’m told I’m a real good hugger SOOOOO….here’s a big hug from me to all of you! AND thank you Lord for giving this sweet girl treatments and people the brains for the technology that they can share good time via their cell phones making it just a little bit easier for them all during this difficult time.xoxoxo

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