Year 2

Hi all – On July 15th, we hit our one year milestone of Sally’s treatment. Achieving remission was our first big milestone, getting Sally through her first year is the second one. This week we sat down with Dr. Steinherz, the senior doctor on Sally’s Leukemia Team, a man who has been treating not only Leukemia for 40 years, but Infant Leukemia. Almost a year ago we sat with him in the same room with an abundance of questions, to which he said we should just focus on getting Sally through the first year. We had to get to this milestone before worrying about anything beyond that being that there was no guarantee we’d get this far with the odds she faced. It was a relief to have gotten here, although know we still have a long journey ahead with those challenging odds still very real.

We discussed where we are at with Sally including concerns over her digestive system, her physical development and the fact that the oral chemo she takes has been hitting her system too hard. We took a step back and he walked us through some changes to her treatment in Year Two. Most Leukemia patients have a first year like what Sally just went though, and then a reduced second year. He reminded us that because Sally’s MLL/ALL diagnosis is “about as high risk Leukemia as it gets”, they would be repeating the first intensive year, however with some adjustments:

– He will be removing the Thioguanine oral chemo for this upcoming cycle, and may remove it permanently. This is the chemo we start off with each cycle that starts all the side effects. It has baffled the entire team why she could tolerate it for months but all of a sudden even small doses bottom her counts out. They performed a genetic test on her blood to see if she had a resistance to it, which came back negative. We’re not happy about it being totally removed as it deviates from the plan that has been successful for him in the past, but trust him to make the right decision.

– As planned, Sally had her last dose of the Daunorubicin from the Red Devil family. She has hit her lifetime limit, due to the heart damage it can cause, and will never be able to receive it again. Sally will have to have an annual EKG for the rest of her life to check her heart for any damage, we are happy to have gotten past this stage and hope for better treatment one day where kids won’t have to have their bodies further damaged in order to save them.

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Last dose of Red Devil.

– In its place Sally will receive a second dose of Cytarabine, which this year she only received once a cycle. We haven’t seen much effect from the one dose, but have been told adding this additional dose can cause severe nausea and high fevers/chills. In fact, last week for the first time since her first dose of it a year ago Sally had those symptoms. Dr. Steinherz told us to be prepared for Sally to potentially have a rough time with this change.

Other than that, everything else remains the same. Dr. Steinherz says that the body takes longer to recover from the effects of the chemo the longer you go on, so have to be mentally prepared that it will likely get harder for Sally. No other institution treats Infant Leukemia with a second intensive year like we’re about to do, so can’t compare it to anyone else. Dr. Steinherz told us he feels this is the best course to take with Sally, and that the last four Infant Leukemics he treated with this protocol are doing well and plans for Sally to be the fifth.

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Sally received a burn from the Methotrexate chemo leaving her body through her urine. We’ve heard of this side effect, but this is the fist time she’s shown any sign of it. Between that and the fever/chills from the Cytarabine we saw increased side effects this cycle, which we hope is not a trend.

Finally, we asked about when treatment will end. There is no firm date, but they are estimating that she’ll be done in August/September of 2015 assuming everything goes to plan. Dr. Steinherz reminded us that the year to year-and-a-half after this will be when Sally is at the highest risk of relapse. Again, we need to focus on getting to that milestone first, and know it’s going to come with challenges. Our long grind continues.

In the meantime, we are living summer to its fullest. Luckily she’s felt good the last two weekends, not necessarily the case all the time during the week, so have been blessed to have so much enjoyment:

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We went out to visit friends in Long Island, 90 minutes from MSK. This is the farthest we’ve been from the hospital in a year.

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She even let our friends hold her, clearly she has good taste in people 🙂

Our friends at Bay Ridge Cares gave us tickets to a Brooklyn Cyclones game, Sally's first baseball game.

Our friends at Bay Ridge Cares gave us tickets to a Brooklyn Cyclones game, Sally’s first baseball game.

We visited friends at a beach club nearby who have a cabana. It's the closest we could get to going to the beach and was a very relaxing day for us.

We visited friends at a beach club nearby who have a cabana. It’s the closest we could get to going to the beach and was a very relaxing day for us.

The boys took Sally around in a cart, which if you can't tell she LOVED. She even hung out in the cart and played.

The boys took Sally around in a cart, which if you can’t tell she LOVED. She even hung out in the cart and played.

Nicole put Sally on a blanket and let her put her feet in the sand, about as risky as we'd get. Here, she's showing you one of William's shells he found.

Nicole put Sally on a blanket and let her put her feet in the sand, about as risky as we’d get. Here, she’s showing you one of William’s shells he found.

The last two Friday nights we've gone to a festival in our neighborhood. It's amazing how many people stop to talk to us, many of which we've met on this journey.

The last two Friday nights we’ve gone to a festival in our neighborhood. It’s amazing how many people stop to talk to us, many of which we’ve met on this journey. Clearly we’re just our famous little girl’s entourage 🙂 

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We managed to eat outside at the festival, bringing William’s dinner with us. We’re still adjusting to his celiac, finding a lot of replacement things he can eat but going out and visiting friends has been tricky and know made providing meals for the meal train much more challenging for folks which we feel bad about.

Sally causing trouble at Robicelli's our local friends' bakery. (see sign)

Sally causing trouble at Robicelli’s our local friends’ bakery. (see sign)

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Today we went out to see our friends in NJ, Sally had a blast playing with the kids and calling after their dog. Little Tyler even helped give Sally her meds. 

We know come fall that we’ll have to go back to being hermits and not able to get out and see people, so are maximizing our time on weekends as much as possible. This week we’re heading out to the Rockaways, a local beach town twenty minutes away, where a friend is letting us use his apartment by the beach for a couple days for a mini-vacation.

Last Monday we all woke up exhausted having done a festival, baseball game and beach club trip in one weekend. As Nicole remarked on our ‘back to reality’ drive to MSK for chemo, “It’s being tired from having so much fun, not from spending too much time in the hospital. Not such a bad problem to have in the grand scheme, is it?”

Please keep Sally in your thoughts and prayers.

Matt

11 Responses

  1. Denise Nofi
    Denise Nofi July 27, 2014 at 10:38 pm | | Reply

    God Bless you all….I so hope this year goes by with the best possible outcomes. Sounds kind of scary with the double up on the mean meds. <3 Can't wait until next year, this time, that Sally is free of this.

  2. Miriam
    Miriam July 27, 2014 at 11:46 pm | | Reply

    Good thoughts your way and don’t feel bad about meal train meals – of course, everyone just wants happy and healthy Kabels 🙂

  3. Andrea Mirabella
    Andrea Mirabella July 28, 2014 at 6:28 am | | Reply

    God bless you guys, always, always in my prayers. Bunch of hugs to all of you. You got this Sally, I know in my heart you’re as tough as your grandma and you’re going to grow up and be big and strong.

  4. stefanie
    stefanie July 28, 2014 at 7:59 am | | Reply

    My thought and prays go out to u guys !! How strong u hold it together . I hope sally someday will be cancer free . cancer run in my family its hard watching anybody go though this special a family member keep us posted about sally she so adorable hugs I will keep u in my prays little sweet sally feel better .!!!

  5. Sandra
    Sandra July 28, 2014 at 8:28 am | | Reply

    Continued good thoughts and tons of prayers for Sally and all of you. Sally will be #5 for your doctor. Remember to count your rainbows. A lot of restaurants in Brooklyn have gluten free items for William so you don’t have to carry his food with you. So happy that you had a few great week-ends this summer. Sally and your whole family is beautiful. Thank you for keeping us posted on Sally. Don’t know her but love her. Stay strong and positive.

  6. Tom Miller
    Tom Miller July 28, 2014 at 12:22 pm | | Reply

    Glad you all can enjoy the summer. On to year two. Hang in there legions of supporters are praying for you.

  7. Sharon R. Kabel
    Sharon R. Kabel July 28, 2014 at 5:13 pm | | Reply

    Matt, We used to vivt the Jersey Shore with the 6 of you when my Dad was engaged to Betty. She owned a place there, but you were too young to remember! We loved the experience and I remember the bumper to bumper trips back to Hackensack! It was a really blessing for us back in the 80’s! Love, Mom K

  8. Maria Manfre
    Maria Manfre July 28, 2014 at 7:03 pm | | Reply

    Hi my name is
    I can relate to everything you are enduring. My son is in remission from Hodgkin s lymphoma. I can relate but can”t imagine a little sweet Angel such as Sally sunshine. My son was 17 years old and I thought it was horrible and unconscionable….
    As a mother my heart breaks on the inside, but in the outside you find the strength to continue through whatever is to come your way,,,,May I say your family is beautiful and Sally is definitely a burst of sunshine in the lives of many .
    May God continue to hold her in the palm of his hand an the center of his heart to continue the radiant and loving smile I know she brings to all….
    Ours is to wonder why, but also ours is to do….

  9. Margaret Murray
    Margaret Murray July 29, 2014 at 9:56 pm | | Reply

    Please god keep this child safe and to have strength through the torment she may endure. Help the Kabel family stay strong and able to see the light at the end of the tunnel. My prayers always and forever .

  10. Colleen
    Colleen August 1, 2014 at 9:21 am | | Reply

    So glad you guys are getting out and enjoying the summer. Always thinking of you and praying for Sally. She’s a little fighter that one… Love to all, cj

  11. Traci Otterman
    Traci Otterman September 24, 2014 at 9:57 pm | | Reply

    I’m praying for your little Sally! My daughter was just diagnosed about 3 months ago, also with mixed lineage ALL, she was 10.5 months. I’d love to talk with you about our protocol vs, what you’re on. You seem so knowledgeable!
    My number is 419/559-5852 or email otterhongkong@yahoo.com
    Thank you and God Bless!
    Traci Otterman

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